Patty IhmApr 9, 20213 min readparentingOutbuildingsThe property was maybe a forty-five minute drive from my grandparents’ house in the St. Louis city limits, but the contrast between the...
Patty IhmDec 5, 20203 min readparentingI Like Your PantsThe elastic was stretched thin on the worn red cotton gingerbread-printed pajama pants. My second-hand find from years ago slipped...
Patty IhmSep 26, 20203 min readadoptionStrip Me BareLast year, they were probably heard screaming through to the second floor of the clinic, and there were fights…battles…battles that they...
Patty IhmJun 12, 20203 min readparentingA Piece of CrapI had a dream that I lost little Gabriel, only he was somehow also Moses. We were at a medical appointment at a hospital. He was with me...
Patty IhmMay 14, 20203 min readparentingI Wish I Could Tell YouAs a little girl, on my sick days from school, the best part of the day was the half hour when I could sit in my dad’s recliner in my...
Patty IhmApr 2, 20203 min readparentingLossIt’s helpful, necessary, and smart. It’s good practice. Also, it’s terrifying. There’s no more solace to be found in the garden these...